Why Do We Fail Even Though We Work So Hard?
You already know why. But you can't seem to explain it.
Why do we fail?
Why don’t our dreams come true sometimes, no matter how hard we try?
Ever wondered why?
Let me assure you, you already KNOW the answer.
But you won’t be able to explain it just yet.
The reason is, it’s not at the surface.
It’s deep-rooted.
It’s buried layers below in your subconscious mind.
You can’t recall it in a snap.
BUT if you SIT with it and CONTEMPLATE …
…it’ll appear ...you’ll just KNOW it in an instant.
More on this in a second…
But going back to why we fail or our dreams don’t come true in our professional careers or life…
The keyword is ALIGNMENT.
We’ll need to ask ourselves: are we TRULY ALIGNED to what we’re working towards?
Physically. Mentally. Emotionally.
Are we aligned?
Who you truly are within yourself…
…does it MATCH what you’re striving for?
Let me give you some examples…
You aspire to be the best salesperson in your company. But you’re an introvert.
You’re an excellent programmer or staff member who’s comfortable working independently. You desire to be promoted as a manager. But you’re not a people person and don’t like the idea of leadership.
You dream of starting a business or take it to the next level, but you’re fundamentally risk-averse or not ready for all the personal sacrifices you’ll have to make.
You have a long career gap and want to get back on track, but you prioritize your family/social commitments over job search and networking.
You want to be popular or attract more opportunities, but you hate self-promotion or putting yourself out there.
You dream of going abroad or relocating to your favourite destination, but there’s no way you will disrupt your kids’ routines or support structure.
I can go on and on, but you get the point…
CONFLICT of INTERESTS.
Not from the outside.
But within ourselves - actually, deep within.
You aspire to be someone or achieve something in future. But the current identify you’re operating from doesn’t MATCH or SUPPORT your desired future identify.
There’s NO ALIGNMENT.
There’s nothing wrong with it.
Let me repeat that: there’s NOTHING WRONG with the way you are right now.
You’re perfect the way you are, you’re complete, and you’re enough, no matter where you are in your life.
BUT if you have a desire to be someone else or achieve something else (there’s nothing wrong with that either)…
…you’ll have step into a different reality - one that MATCHES and SUPPORTS your future reality.
You can’t continue to be an introvert and become the best salesperson in your company.
You’ll have to embrace leadership if you dream of becoming a manager.
To attract more opportunities, you’ll have to put yourself out there more often.
If you’re operating from your current reality, it may not pan out.
If you’re not truly aligned with what feels most authentic and/or natural to you, it may not pan out.
If your dreams do not align with what you MOST value in life, they may not pan out.
Is there a possibility you may have taken on your dreams, goals, and aspiration as a 'copy' of someone else's life formula or blueprint that's not quite the real you?
In this age of TiKTok and Instagram, there’s so much nonsense being portrayed about the “ideal life”.
Fear of failure, fear of being judged, or not feeling good enough about ourselves are some of the most common reasons our dreams don’t come true.
But one that is often overlooked is…
…our own INTERNAL RESISTANCE to what we want to achieve as we’re not TRULY ALIGNED yet with the life we’re envisioning for ourselves.
If you’re wondering why you keep failing and your dreams don’t manifest, look deeper.
CONTEMPLATE what you value MOST in life.
What feels more authentic or natural to you?
What sacrifices have you done/been doing for the greater good of your family, friends, and/or community?
If your aspirations CONFLICT with your present psychological conditioning, integrity, or family values…
…that’s what’s been holding you back subconsciously.
For all you know, it might be a good thing that those dreams or goals didn’t manifest after all.
You can’t arrive at this conclusion by recalling it from your memory.
You’ll need a deeper introspection.
if you SIT with it and CONTEMPLATE …
…the answers will appear..
...you’ll KNOW it in an instant.
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