Law of attraction is bull cr*p.
A lot of people will hate me for saying that.
But I say it with conviction because not all our aspirations come true.
Our failures outnumber our successes too.
More often than not, we give up even before we fail.
How can you fail if you’ve been sincerely following the law of attraction principles?
You’d imagine it to be failsafe, isn’t it?
Apparently not.
The problem with people who preach the law of attraction is they say you can get ANYTHING YOU WANT by applying its principles.
That’s the problem - you trying to strive for ANYTHING you want in life.
Don’t get me wrong…
…you have the free will to have unlimited desires and wishes…
…after all, you live one life.
Sounds contradicting?
It is.
But let me explain…
The fact that you can wish for ANYTHING you want doesn’t mean you MUST.
Most people’s desires are blindly driven by someone else’s lifestyle or relationships they outwardly project.
What you see and hear about someone else is not the truth.
Nobody’s life is a bed of roses.
Everyone has their own unique versions of struggles that are not obvious.
So, modelling your desires based on someone else’s life is a lie you’ll be telling yourself.
Most people do this unconsciously.
It is okay to get inspired by others.
But it is NOT okay to COPY others’ lives with the assumption that things will be rosy after you achieve similar standards.
The problem with how law of attraction is being advertised is it gives you the illusion that your life will be fabulous after your desires manifest.
If it does, it’s fantastic!
But there are no guarantees.
Most people second guess their decisions after they start living their “dream lives”, because they had NO IDEA what was in store for them after.
They cannot live with their own decisions.
What they were rooting for was clearly NOT ALIGNED with who they were as individuals, their environments, or family circumstances.
(Read my previous post here about why our dreams don’t come true. I explain how internal alignment works within an individual and how it contributes to success or failure.)
People end up expelling a LOT of energy trying to undo what they did so they can make better life choices next time.
Nothing wrong with it.
It’s only a question of how much time and energy you’re willing to lose.
Is it worth it?
Everyone has an opportunity to do their due diligence before embarking on a desire.
There’s a choice you can make EVEN BEFORE you make a wish and go all in…
“Am I TRULY ALIGNED with this desire? Can I live happily with my own decision and its consequences no matter what they are?”
Spend some time in solitude.
Be CRYSTAL CLEAR on who you are as a person and what you want in life.
Envision your future life by including your family, environment, and other circumstances as applicable.
Is your future all-inclusive, or exclusive only to you?
This is an IMPORTANT DECISION that’ll make a HUGE difference in how you’ll live AFTER your dreams have manifested.
So, I’ll say that again - the way law of attraction is promoted is bull cr*p.
It’s like taking a kid to a candy store and asking it to choose.
You don’t want to attract all kinds of things into your life without going deeper within yourself first.
Once you’re aligned internally with who you are as a person, the RIGHT things will NATURALLY GRAVITATE towards you…
AND it’ll be for the GREATER GOOD — no additional effort is needed from you to make the magic happen. ✨
I wish you nothing but the best in whatever you’re pursuing. 👊
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I wish you nothing but the best in whatever you’re pursuing. 👊